Praise be to Allah, and Allah bless him and bless His slave and Messenger Prophet Muhammad and his family. After:
The business controls in order to be seized by the approval of the project; and when I lost those controls that work was forbidden. How much of human, pig and he signed for such controls is forbidden in terms of feel or do not feel! Peace has said it: "It is an action that is not us it is a" (1).
It is these actions that must be set controls Shara banter that frequently in these later times; and least of controls under control, al-Shara.
Joking annexation Almim: a way intended to Alambasith; so that is not conducive to harm, abuse reached If it leads to cynicism. And banter broken Almim: source.
The benefits of a joke:
First: to be on the way Almlainp and Alambasith and Taattyib risked your companion and to bring happiness to his heart.
The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, "and smiling at your brother is charity" (2).
And Abdullah ibn al-Harith may Allah be pleased with him, said: "I never saw anyone more smiles from the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him" (3).
Second-ins that are accompanying the expulsion of loneliness and the formation of hearts and the manifestation of brotherhood and fulfilling.
Third: get rid of the fear, anger, anxiety and other; if the human joked Enter the same thing of pleasure and entertainment, and what still afraid of it or tempered it.
Fourth, get rid of the boredom and tedium, Sheikh was giving his students a question or a mystery to go their boredom.
It was the Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him calls to each animal in the order of things in life, and recreation for the same animal, but from the animal to be a manifestation of the work of all human life; even connects to animal qualities Rahim Comrade Creator to His creation.
Narrated by Bukhari in his Sahih that the Prophet, peace be upon him said: "Allah loves kindness, and gives the animal is not giving to violence and does not give on anything else." (4).
And gentleness: "Lin is a side by word and deed and taking Baloshl, which is against violence," (5).
And extroversion and joking and consequent say Lin and smiling and feeling happy but a manifestation of kindness.
Perhaps the most famous was reportedly in jest as reported by Al-Bukhari in the door (to the extroversion people) talk: "O Abu Amir nughayr what he did?" (6).
As well as Abu Dawood in his Sunan from Anas: "A man of the Prophet peace be upon him came and said: O Messenger of Allah Ahmlna. The Prophet, peace be upon him:" I am Hamilok the old camel, "he said, and what I do Bold camel? The Prophet prayed God him: "Do camels only give birth to a camel" (7).
Perhaps strap God bless him and his companions after sunrise, and the evidence for the report narrated by fishmonger bin war, said: "I said to Jaber bin Samra: Did you sit with the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him? He said: Yes very much; he will not rise from the place in which he prayed Fajr until the sun rises; if the sun rises. and they were talking they take in ignorance is Vidgon and Itbasm "(
In the novel Women and Ahmed increase: "Poetry and singing" (9).
It is times after evening prayers, ie: the hills, and the hills: talk before going to sleep.
He cited recent examples mentioned in Bukhari door (the hills in science) and devised their passport in the hills of science and measurement of this in Sociability with parents, as well as for the collection of interest with the Muslim Brotherhood and friends or. Increasingly mustahabb if the advocacy for the benefit advised to make and bring the hearts and increase the love and affection and remove Chagrin and create an atmosphere of love and dating.
Lessons from Abu Darda:
There is nothing wrong to take comfort in calling not be forbidden to use it for work and performance as required by the human instinct, that Abu Darda may Allah be pleased with him say: "I relax some of falsehood; to me to be the most active in the truth" (10).
Ibn Taymiyyah says, commenting on this to say: "As for those of hired Balambah beautiful on the right of this good works" (11).
Companions and joke:
Cited by Abu Dawood in his Sunan: "for acid Ben seedlings said, while a man from the Ansar happen folk which was kidding Pena them laugh stab Prophet, peace be upon him in the side stick, he said: Osberna! He said: that ye. He said: you have a T-shirt and not on the shirt . Prophet, peace be upon him for his shirt lifted up and make Vaandhanh accept Khha. said, but I wanted this, O Messenger of God "(12).
It was months companions Enaiman bin Amr bin Rvaap celebrated its story and Daabath, a Sahabi Jalil: "the Battle of Badr, and it was the ancient companions and Kpraihm, and was the excess of humor, and his lighthearted news in Daabath .. It was Enaiman funny joke" (13).
It was a joke kind of expulsion of boredom and worry and get away from the concerns of the world and the recreation of the same; it must be for a minimum of situations where renewed energy and bring them to Elan; because hearts if Colette Amit; indeed, it may be a manifestation of manhood in the house and with the wife and kids, if It was without extravagance or delinquency, not as some think that manhood carried at cost and artificiality.
And hear the words of some of the companions:
"Ibn Umar said: It is like to be a man in his family, such as the boy, then if it found punk man.
It was Zaid ibn Thabit Ovkh of people in his home, if a man came out of men "(14).
So it should not be committed to the creation of a young smiling or calling out of the house and made heavy-handed and acrimony in his home, is no secret that the reverse is also reprehensible of affectation.
Balance based on demand:
It was the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him live with his companions, including the firm from the likes of Omar ibn al-Khattab may Allah be pleased with him was a solemn man. His humor and those who lies down on the scruff of his neck, did not deny on one of them.
The origin is in denial Poseur in chuckling laugh, or laugh at the citizen seriously, or over it.
"We have asked Ibn 'Umar, may Allah be pleased with them: Was the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him laugh? He said: Yes, and faith in their hearts like a mountain.
Said Bilal bin Saad: caught up between symptoms jokingly pretending to fight each other and laughing to some, if the night were monks "(15).
Thus, under the faithful companions of the Prophet's approach without the banter affect the seriousness of the work, or on the application of the Sunnah, or to miss interests.
There is no doubt that excessive lead to things contrary to the purposes of the law and the orders of chivalry, and inconsistent with the shrines Semitism, as they may be a good stand-alone but it leads to evil, and I've said Ali may Allah be pleased with him to clarify this balance and install it: "The best of this nation East Style: They perish due to them, and caused to their next "(16).
The nation's predecessor:
On the approach companions walked advances made in jest break; not find a book is almost devoid of salt and Odds belonging to Sheikh Imam popular God's mercy.
It was said to Sufian bin appointment: hybridization kidding?
He said, even a year, but those who regard improve it and puts it Moadah.
Some scholars banter was considered in accordance with the controls and in his time of chivalry, default its Jum virility, and stressed that in the travel; and in this he says Rabia opinion: "The virility qualities: three in urban areas, and three in the travel, which in Travel: Fbzl intake , and good manners, and the large number of banter is sin "(17).
And the reported revenue officers and advances the nation's long, all of them on this doctrine in the passport banter according to Shariah.
Nuclear says God's mercy: "banter Terminator about is that it is excessive and persistent; it inherited laughter and hardening of the heart, and distracts from the remembrance of Allah Almighty, and construed in many times to abuse, and inherited hatreds, and drops the prestige and dignity. As for the ladder of these things it is permissible that the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him to do "(18).
Shariah in jest:
1 - not to be something of a mockery of religion:
This shall be deemed Nullifiers of Islam; the verse: ((While I asked them? They would but we are fighting and playing less Oballah and His signs and His Messenger, you evidences, (65) may not apologize disbelieved after your belief)) [repentance: 65.66].
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah God's mercy: "mockery of God and His signs and His Messenger Kafr atone by its owner after his faith" (19) and makes the Imam Ibn Qudaamah that apostasy from Islam.
This Kalasthza some Sunan for pranks, and some legal provisions as default dress and beard or praying, fasting, and others.
Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased to say: "guilty of a sin with a laugh fire came a cry" (20).
2 - should not only be honest and not lie:
Especially those accustomed to mention the jokes false intent to make people laugh. Narrated by Imam Ahmad in his Musnad that the Prophet, peace be upon him he said: "Woe to the one who tells lies to the people laugh and woe to him" (21).
And saying peace be upon him: "A man may speak a word to laugh counseled by airing them in the fire beyond the Pleiades" (22).
There is no doubt that they are caught in the vacuum due to the weakness of faith and away from the remembrance of Allah Almighty, and accompany them to bad Gelads who decorate them some taboo.
3 - derision of others:
That taboo and is one of the major sins, the Almighty says: ((O ye who believe, do not make fun of some of the people hoping to be better than them and women of women may be that not good for them nor Tlmzoa yourselves nor Tnabzoa titles evil immorality name after faith and does not repent they are the wrong-doers)) [closets: 11].
Ibn Kathir says, "to be that of contempt and Astsgaarham and ridicule them, and this is forbidden, and is one of the attributes of the hypocrites" (23).
Tabari says: "nudge the hand and the eye, tongue, reference, and insults is not only the tongue" (24).
Bayhaqi narrated in the (people of faith) that the Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him said: "The mockers people to open the door to one of them said to paradise: so, comes and Bakrbh and his chagrin, if came close without him" (25).
It is feared that the scoffer has in that trait that makes a mockery of the other Vicef and plagued by so doing; for saying peace be upon him: "Do not show your brother gloat Verhmh and Abtelic God" (26).
We forbade the Prophet peace be upon him from ridicule Muslims, he said: "Muslim brother Muslim does not oppress him nor forsake him nor Ahakrh. Piety is here and pointed to his chest three times, according to the man of the evil that degrades his Muslim brother. Every Muslim over a Muslim is forbidden: his blood, and his wealth , and presented "(27).
4 - not terrorizes his brother:
Abu Dawood has reported in his Sunan Ibn Abi Layla said: "Tell us the companions of Muhammad, peace be upon him that they were walking with the Prophet, peace be upon him, and he slept a man whom some of them went to the rope with him took him blown" Messenger of Allah said, peace be upon him: " is not permissible for a Muslim to frighten another Moslem "(28).
As well as saying, peace be upon him: "Do not any of you are taking his brother's belongings player not serious" (29).
5 - not getting carried away and engage and exaggeration and prolongation:
It should not attend the joke; because Grandpa believers attributes, and only kidding license and a space for the continuation of self in the performance of their duty. Some people do not differentiate between the time grandpa and play. Thus, al-Ghazali warned God's mercy, saying: "It is a great mistake to take the craft joke" (30).
6 - that people come down to their homes:
The world and the Great them of prestige and dignity special status, and because the joke may lead to bad manners with them often should stay away from the banter with them for fear of prejudice under the guidance of the Prophet, peace be upon him; where he says: "One of the reverence for God honoring a Shaybah Muslim" (31).
Peacock quoted Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with him, he said: "Year of the dignified world."
As well as the ethics of Islam not be flirting with the stranger who does not know the nature of the same Kidder; this leads to Asthakar Kidder and taken lightly; this is Omar bin Abdul Aziz sent to Adi bin Ortoh says: "Fear joking; it goes virility."
7 - not to be foolish with:
Saad bin Abi Waqas said to his son: "sparingly in Mzag; it goes over the pomp, foolish dare you."
8 - not to be the absence of:
Backbiting and gossiping both Tbban ally in the swamp of sedition, not devoid of many bantered of this great scourge; because many of his words many dropped him, he does not feel that he originally signed in sin; because in his claim but says so and so is jokingly Qassed it. Prophet, peace be upon him did not Aa definition of absence, saying: "you remember your brother that he dislikes" (32).
Al-Tirmidhi reported in his Sunan from the Prophet, peace be upon him, he said: "If the son of Adam became the all Members atone tongue, says: Fear God in us; for he We are your: the Astqmt Astqmna, though Aaojajt Aauajjjna" (33).
And backbiting types, whether in the body or creation, and others.
This God and ask that Aadbna ethics of Islam, and to guide us to the straight path.
God bless our Prophet Muhammad and his family and companions.